This essay was intended to discourage the hundreds of emails I receive on this matter. But it has become far worse, I am not taking on any return love cases and I am not performing spells for attracting a specific person anymore. If it's a general love, request to ask that the universe find someone for you I will do this and the same goes for sexual attraction requests.
I am not here to fix your personal issues or mistakes made in a love matter. You alone are responsible for your mistakes in life and can't expect a magcian to take on the responsobility of your careless attitude towards your love life.
Only my old clients are still welcome to specific request and you know who you are.
Only request assistance in your love situation if you are willing to take responsibility for your failure in the relationship, it takes two to make a relationship work. You cant buy your way through magical work, nor be cleared of blame for your failures in love. If you want things to work grow past your petty emotions and try to understand the person you love.
Too many people cry innocent yet do not reflect on those parts of their personality which may not agree with the rest of the world. If you are still interested in this please read on:
Love spells: Advice for those seeking assistance in these matters:
If you have joined my Blog for love help or have visited my website for love assistance then this information is for you.
I’m writing this essay in English because I have already covered this issue in Spanish on my website as 60% of my correspondents are in that language I am now appealing to the 40% of my correspondents that speak English.
The largest percentage of email correspondence for spiritual assistance that I will receive over the course of a year regards love, I am certain that this is true of most spiritual practitioners who actively help the public. Whether it is someone wanting to attract someone to the most notorious request of returning a lost lover, or those wanting more sex in their life to the least difficult finding a lover. For any of these aspects of love here is a basic guideline with my rules for this aspect of my practice.
Although the heart wants what it wants, the emotions of love can sometimes make you feel like either living life to its fullest of feel like dying? I do not consider love related requests to be, a life and death situation, so many people who request help with this topic behave in this manner. Often prompt me their urgency which is quite silly and often counter productive to resolving your particular matter if it can be resolved. I am not insensitive to these matters only pragmatic and experienced enough to know that not everyone who asks for this help is sincere, for those of you who are sincere you have my empathy. There is a difference between love and obsession this is why I take a practical approach to these matters.
General Rule for all spiritual assistance: What ever magical work I perform on your behalf is strictly confidential and will never be repeated outside our consultation. This also means I expect you to keep the secrecy as well keep in mind that speaking of something that is being done for you can very well sabotage the help you receive. There have been far too many experiences in years gone by, that illustrate the damage caused by speaking about any help you are receiving from a spiritual practitioner.
Anyone you speak to can compromise the help whether it is your mother, sister, best friend, brother, god brother or sister. This is especially true of those from a magico-religious sect seeking outside magical assistance. Such instances the god child did not receive help from their God Father or were forbade this course of action, so will seek outside magical assistance. If they make the grave mistake of sharing this with a trusted sister or brother of the sect soon the brother or sister will report this to their God Father.
What will happen is their supposed mighty magical God Father will start to verbally harass and threaten the godchild causing them to feel unpleasantness over the matter and so ruining their outlook for whatever they needed help with which is unfortunate. Not all magico-religious sects are this way, though you would be surprised at how many people report this.
The point is confidentiality is above all my number one rule for any spiritual help you will receive from me. If you absolutely can not honor this rule then please do not waste my time or yours with these matters.
Returning a lost love:
Before you ask for this help it is important that you truly think about the situation that led to your break-up with your love. Too many people are willing to lay blame for their break-up on outside factors rather than look first within themselves for the answers. Before considering outside influences for the break-up consider the following.
First off I need to know everything concerning the relationship aspect of the break-up no lies and only truth which means unbiased truth.
Quite often when a couple breaks up there are many factors for this and both people play their role in a break-up. It can be due to the inevitable personality clashes between couples or one lover is inconsiderate of their loves feelings about the relationship.
Likewise the offended lover is not expressing their unhappiness with whatever the issue might be. It can be any number of reasons such as: their lover may be clingy, dominating, suffocating, jealous, vindictive or completely inconsiderate of their loves desire or need within the relationship. In addition it can be as simple as the fact that the lover grew apart, this does happen.
Ironically there are people who will not face reality that the other person no longer loves you. Sometimes you have a lover that has a history of unfaithfulness and now has grown tired of the relationship and is leaving you for the other person. Is this really someone you want to have in your life? Unless the outside influence is real such as a person that is pursuing your spouse or mate then it can be a factor to consider. However you should ask why your mate was so willing to give into the temptation of the outside influence maybe something was always wrong to begin with.
These are many possibilities for a break up and I will only know if you can truly be helped if you are truly unbiased and dead honest with me about your situation. Some people believe that they can lie to the spiritual worker and expect the magical work to bring back the lover despite the truth of the matter. This is both unrealistic and a problem because it means you will fail in regaining your lost love, you will hear me repeat this again. Additionally I will say that sometimes people will linger around an ex lover asking them if they still love them obviously an ex-lover will say yes or no dependant of their personality. Some people will say yes to the ex lover to not hurt their feelings and this deludes the jilted lover further who unrealistically believes this to be true. If it were so you would still be together so please be realistic.
Finally patience is paramount in these matters, if your lost lover has any desire to be with you again. These spells will manifest from 9 days to generally within 6 months and in very rare cases 9 months to a year. It all depends on the damage you did in the relationship and I have known some very bad examples of this. Her lover came back still in 9 months time yet my former client did not feel he would return considering the serious bad she did to him, please be realistic in these matters before you ask for help.
Attracting a specific someone:
This is another area that sometimes comes up and needs to be seriously addressed. Before you go about attracting that specific person you really should consider some very basic factors and look realistically at what it is that you truly desire from this interaction. Also keep in mind there is a trap in this regard, one that you will fall into if you are not mentally disciplined enough to deal with. It is important to get to know the person you desire to attract before you employ a love spell to bring them closer to you. Sometimes the person you are attracted to, does not like you, or you may find something about their personality which is undesirable.
Ask yourself what it is about this person that I really desire to have? Do I want them as a lover? Do I want this person to have casual sexual relations? Do I want this person as more than just a sexual recreation? Do I enjoy their company? Do they in turn enjoy my company? Most importantly if the person already shows an interest in you before any love spell is cast, its time to consider another factor. Are they married or have a lover? If so most likely the most you could get out of such a person is sex and then what if you fall in love and their significant over discovers this interaction?
Being a man I do not want to pick on my own gender species but this is important with men. Guys and I speak to you who ask me for love spells. Do not assume a lady likes you because she spoke to you once or was kind enough to return your greeting. Just because she smiled when your eyes met hers does not mean she wants you! Most importantly do not I repeat DO NOT start buying her things and doing favors for her, do you know why? She will not want to reject your help and will be too afraid to express her disinterest to reject your help or gifts. Which will lead toward the delusion that they want you or feel what you feel, laugh if you will I have had various people say this to me who were fixated on a specific person.
In all of these matters I expect that you provide of me only the truth of your situation. I also will always require your names and dates of birth as this is imperative to understanding the situation better through my own personal methods of analysis. Again do not expect results over night even with love spells designed to attract someone it can take months.
Just think about the act of falling in love, and yes sometimes people instantly click other times it is a bond established over time. Nothing in this life is fast and easy please consider this before seeking magical help.
Marriage spells & Love binding (Amarre)
The same rules apply with this aspect of love magic as above and relates in a similar fashion to the return lover spells. See the last two topics regarding getting to know someone and understanding each other before you attempt to force marriage on someone or expect to bind them to you forever. Worse yet are the people that suspect their love will cheat if they are gone for a long time, if you feel this way despite their innocence let them go.
My personal opinion as a spiritual worker I believe that love binding spells are a stupid thing to do. Nothing in this world or the next is for certain. Wanting something forever seems great but it is human nature to both grow tired of something and want some more. Always remember that in life only death is certain, La Muerte viene a todos. You should love each other as long as love exists between you and do your best to keep that love strong by bringing out the best in each other.
Consider also that a marriage in and of itself carries with it ritualistic elements of a binding of people, in many wedding ceremonies there is a symbolic tying of the hands to symbolize this bond. Additionally it has a time constraint much like a true spell (until death do us part) which binds the two until death. Yet despite this bond many married couples will cheat on each other this is not an uncommon aspect of life, people don’t always marry for love.
Attracting love or sex into your life:
This is probably the simplest and most pleasant of all areas of love magic, because the spirits or universe are always more willing to grant your wish when you allow your needs to be provided for you by the forces of the beyond. When you are picky or want a specific someone the forces will not always be so willing and so it can require tremendous effort and strength from the magician to accomplish this.
Yet when you simply ask for someone as a lover then you will find someone with a general love attracting spell. Same is true when you are looking someone for sex you will find someone with these spells as in the case of general sexual attraction spell its wise not to be too picky.
Please review these sections regarding love before you email me with questions or requests regarding this issue.
Note: If you are emailing in regards to a request for magical work, please ask me first regarding your specific interests. If I accept and feel I can help you? Then tell me your whole story, but not before requesting first.
If you extend me this simple courtesy it makes it easier to answer the large volumes of email I receive regarding these topics.